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Honoring the Life of Breonna Taylor | Maplewood / South Orange, NJ
We’d like to take a moment to thank these four amazing women who put together yesterday’s vigil in honor of #BreonnaTaylor on what would have been her 27th Birthday.
The Sassy Rant wishes Jay-Z a Happy 50th Birthday
I bought my first Jay-Z cd during my freshman year of college. Late bloomer, I know. Thinking back, I can still remember the rush of excitement I felt as “The Ruler’s Back” blared through the speakers in my Dad’s Chevy Equinox.
Like most people, I had heard Hov’s radio hits, but never really took the time to listen to any of his albums from start to finish. That day, I sat in the front seat of the truck and read the booklet insert from cover to cover as the music consumed me.
My fascination with Jay, his music, and his business moves had grown more and more leading up to that point so I needed to familiarize myself with every person he mentioned on those pages. I needed to know the producers of other songs he spat out, the instrumental details, the mailing address listed inside, shoutouts, everything!
Networking Secrets I Shared with The Young Professionals of PSEG
I sat as a panelist yesterday at an event hosted by The Young Professionals of PSEG and Newark Regional Business Partnership.
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Expectations
Expectations – I require a lot because I supply a lot. Early on, thanks to Hov, I adopted the mantra “Never ask for anything I don’t demand of myself,” and I live by that. But even in giving your best efforts, no one is required to return the favor. Alarming fact? Not necessarily. But certainly deserving of an eye roll.
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It’s About Time
I decided to stick around after work last week to get some writing done. There’s so much I want to share with you all but I just haven’t been disciplined enough to really sit down and it get done. That’s an excuse, I know. But it’s the truth. To be honest, I worry about how you’ll perceive me being gone for so long then showing up unexpectedly like that cousin you only see at funerals who says they’ll come around more but never does. Continue reading It’s About Time
Rise In Power – Nipsey Hussle
I felt this one deep in the pit of my soul and it hurts real bad, y’all. Nip represented so much not just as an artist, but as a man. He was elevating and inspiring so many of our people and it hurts beyond words that his life and work was cut short. All love + heartfelt prayers to his family, especially Lauren and his children. I’m still in shock… the world is in shock. This shouldn’t be real. (R)ise (I)n (P)ower #NipseyHussle 💔 Continue reading Rise In Power – Nipsey Hussle
I Surrender
I sat down last night to take notes while the house was quiet enough to pause and reflect. For the past few months, I’ve been growing though a few phases and changes. Some mental and spiritual, others physical and emotional. I know it’s been some time since you’ve heard from me, and I apologize about that. I want to be completely honest with you about where I am right now so please be patient as I share.
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Hello, October
It’s the start of my favorite month, my favorite season, and somehow I’m typing this at what seems to be my favorite time of day. I started working on this post early this morning, but of course, work and other commitments stood in the way. My Cocktail Conversations panel is happening this Saturday and surprisingly enough, I’m filled with an unexplainable calmness. Continue reading Hello, October
It’s July 23rd…
Today is Mirah’s 26th birthday. If she were still here, I know she’d be hyped for the day and the night’s festivities. I’d call her at 11:59 p.m. to be one of the first to wish her a happy birthday and would text her “7/23 at 7:23” with a purple heart and cake emoji. Continue reading It’s July 23rd…
2018 Is About Transparency
Often I’m told that I seem closed off. Like there’s something I’m holding back, especially in many of my blog posts. I try my hardest to be transparent but still maintain a level of privacy because face it, my readers don’t need to know every aspect of my personal life. Well something just changed that. I mean I’ll still be a little vague with certain topics, but today you’ve caught me in a mood. I’m not sure why I’ve felt the sudden urge to share, but I hope in doing so, this situation starts to make sense in my own mind. Continue reading 2018 Is About Transparency
Fellas, When Was The Last Time…
The other night I asked a handful of guys when was the last time a woman had asked or taken them on a date. And I mean a real date, not a “Hey babe, let’s go to Applebee’s for a 2 for $20, your treat.” I mean a real date — one where she picks you up, takes you to a new spot, recommends something good for you to try on the menu, and takes care of the check at the end. I’m envisioning a cross between Destiny’s Child “Cater 2 U” and Usher’s “Trading Places.” But hey, that’s not what happens in the real world and I’m sure you would agree. Continue reading Fellas, When Was The Last Time…
The Sassy Rant Presents: Cocktail Conversations on October 7th!
Remember how I’ve been telling you all that I would be planning an event for The Sassy Rant? Well, that time has come! I am pleased to announce that I’ll be hosting Cocktail Conversations: A panel discussing the importance of sisterhood amongst women of color on October 7, 2017. Will you be there? Continue reading The Sassy Rant Presents: Cocktail Conversations on October 7th!
She Did That… Again!
Yo Class of 2017, I’m happy for you, but Yolanda Danae’ had one of the best graduation ceremonies of all time! Well, maybe the ceremony wasn’t all that, but I definitely was! Graduating with my Masters has absolutely granted me bragging rights and I’m not letting anyone shame me on my success this time around! From staying up well after 3am to finish papers and having to be right back up at 7am for work, leaving work (in the city) early to rush to the subway, then the train (back to Jersey), then to my car, then to class (all in a 2hour window). From being mentally exhausted and having anxiety sometimes linger a moment too long. From telling my friends how (at my last semester) I didn’t think I’d make it through, to being here in this moment. I’m amazed myself, you know? Like wow, I did that… again! Continue reading She Did That… Again!
Just Like You, Women Bait Men Too!
Yeah I said it, women bait men too. Ladies, don’t pretend like you don’t know what I’m talking about. Have you ever been scrolling on the gram and come across a guy you know only on Instagram because you followed one another from Twitter and found each other there because you were friends on Facebook and only there because of Myspace? Well, this guy posts a picture with a few of his boys. You like the picture, but can’t help but wonder who the cutie is with the dark brown skin, long locs, and the perfect smile. Continue reading Just Like You, Women Bait Men Too!
Interview: True Confessions with Nai & Honey of #TheConfessional
Once upon a time, talking about what went on behind closed doors with your partner was a no-no. Well, the ladies of The Confessional have broken down that wall and are spilling ALL the tea imaginable! From your most intimate and personal questions, to your deepest, darkest, most sick obsessions and fantasies, Nai and Honey speak on it all! Last week, I had the pleasure (no pun intended) of speaking with these ladies and learned first hand what makes The Confessional such a success. Without further ado, I welcome you into The Confessional. Continue reading Interview: True Confessions with Nai & Honey of #TheConfessional
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year! I know I’ve been gone a while but I promise, I’m back for good this time! There’s so much I want to share with you, but this post will focus solely on our plans for this new year. Continue reading Happy New Year!
Sassy Spotlight: Warren, Owner of Mass Screen Printing
Where do you all usually go for your printed marketing/branding materials? Wherever that place may be, I can guarantee you that it has nothing on Mass Screen Printing! Interested in finding out why?
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#SassySpotlight: College Park’s Latest Flame, Kap G!
New week. New face. New spotlight. #KapG Continue reading #SassySpotlight: College Park’s Latest Flame, Kap G!
E.B.O. Beard Butter And The Man Behind The Magic!
What’s more attractive than a handsome man with a beard? Well, a man with a healthy one. Apparently, it’s levels to this ish when it comes to sporting a beard. I’m sure you all know of at least one man whose crumb catcher could use a little extra attention. Well, we’ve certainly found the magic to tame even the unruliest of beards – E.B.O. Beard Butter. In an exclusive interview with Edward Oliver, the organic beard butter creator, he shares with us his motivation for creating such a product, the importance of quality ingredients, and how these butters not only benefit his male clientele, but their female counterparts as well. Let’s dive in! Continue reading E.B.O. Beard Butter And The Man Behind The Magic!
Something To Work On…
Sometimes it takes driving home alone to finally realize, “Hey, there are some things I could work on.” Continue reading Something To Work On…
The Side Piece
The title pretty much explains itself. Let’s jump in. Continue reading The Side Piece
Should I Have To Ask If You’re Single?
About a week ago, an old friend reached out to me to inquire about how I had been doing as of late. After a few days of small talk, the conversation transitioned to us now discussing details of our last time speaking, reminiscing on the “good times” and ended with his assurance to be around long term. For whatever reason, I wasn’t moved by his statements seeing how his inconsistency played a big part in why we stopped speaking in the past. The next day I felt compelled to ask, “Are you single?” minutes later he responded, “Not at the moment.” Continue reading Should I Have To Ask If You’re Single?
Sure You Can Talk, But Can You Perform?
Talk less, act more. Let’s jump into today’s rant. Continue reading Sure You Can Talk, But Can You Perform?
Why Bother Sticking Around?
Because the gain is far more beneficial than the loss. Continue reading Why Bother Sticking Around?
Welcoming All Into the Presence of Royalty: I Bring to you, The King, Brazy Boy (2011)
In an exclusive interview with Newark native, Brazy Boy, also known as “King Brazy,” I’ve come to learn some of what makes up the King himself. From the defenseless child watching his mother being attacked to the rap artist taking over his city today, Brazy has defiantly made a name for himself.
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Amirah, My Darling Angel (continued)
If you haven’t already done so, visit our earlier post, “Amirah, My Darling Angel” before continuing this one. Continue reading Amirah, My Darling Angel (continued)
Can Long Distance Relationships Really Work?
Recently, one of my followers on Twitter asked “Do long distance relationships work?” Well, anything has the potential to work, I’d like to believe, if those involved are willing to make it happen.
Before committing yourself to the idea though, here are some things to consider. Continue reading Can Long Distance Relationships Really Work?